带你活动上前男士爱情片厂牌《MEN AT PLAY》的台前幕后。Truth is not like what you think

哼基友跟自己说,这种讲究同志群体之章,不秀秀美好的人体是难以引起关注之。

S05E01

吓吧,我只是想秀得精一点,脱离烂俗,并且为当直男直女的收受范围外

Homie is not change no matter how big change happen in future. So he
left the guy. They are not in the world now.

Men At Play 是如出一辙下欧洲的男儿爱情片厂牌,之前总部在伦敦,现在凡西班牙。

The baby father met each other in the supermarket.

本条厂牌在海内外的同志围绕有非常强之知名度,甚至于女性遭遇为来忠实观众。

Hey. Lip.

影视宣传图的作风

I have a new lease on life.

Men At Play知名的原由是他老好地聚焦于一个一定需求的商海。

What 17-year-old gay kid isn’t horny?

影视的台柱都是着装精致高贵西装的要命Hot 而且非常MAN的男模。

Franks’s milk of the gods.

这些男模外形胜过挑,阳光,成熟,硬朗,潇洒,就和电视剧里在办公走来走去的时尚商务人士一样。

You body is perfect.

S05E02

影视场景不仅仅发生在办公室,还有卧室,浴室,厨房,游泳池,club,警察局甚至绑架以及讯现场等等。

They want to move people in who can pay taxes. So they push us out. And
eventually, we end up in a camp somewhere at the cage of civilization. A
tent city built on old landfills and toxic waste sites. And then they
start passing out the smallpox blanket.

这些拥有自然气质而身姿矫健的丈夫以一定情景中之掠,恰到好处的满足了同志及一些女性中心,对高颜值商务型男,华贵纯净的衬衣下
若隐若现胴体的奇妙遐想

You okay? Are you lost? Hahaha!

To be honest, I always thought you were just handjob whore. It’s ok. I
thought you are a illiterate bartender pimp.

倘你欢喜阳光成熟而潇洒优雅,打在领带穿正迷你华贵的洋装,具有商务奢华气质的丈夫,那么这个厂牌不见面受您失望。

Why don’t you don’t wanna go to the swim pool. Someone shit on it? No.
Someone shit on you?

这些男模通常在20-30基本上春,在一些地方抱有自然的相似性。

How to let the boy want you. And when they do, what do you actually do?

于这厂牌的官网上,你可以查阅这些列表,给她们打分,成为他们的粉丝,也足以了解她们之活着背景。

They disrespect the college student. But he still alive even tired like
a dog. He never shows anything different in here. He is great.

当下这个厂牌有149单表演了之男模。

Lip. Wet beats hot.

他俩不用还是驾,也起有是直男或者双性恋

That was me asking you on a date. Because I figure you kinda can’t ask
me out. You know,because I work for you.

发局部逐年退,有一部分初的血在

It means a lot. For my husband.

眼光好之对象应该发现了上面的一些图片发诸多音讯,图片下方来片名之类的,感兴趣可以自动百度

Laura. I’m–I’m Frank. I’m the liver.

当Cybersocket获得2017年超级欧洲Best European Site,Best Niche Site和Best
Sex Scene3桩奖励

It’s a constant temptation. I feel it in my stomach and my skin.

(Cybersocket是美国享誉的成材杂志,评选顶尖爱情片厂牌和艺人)

Let me see you face now. What face? You have no Mather? So I could do
for you what my mother did for me.

今年恰好是此厂牌的15周年诞辰

What the hell are you doing? Put your tongue back in my mouth. What is
this shit?! Five minutes ago, you were a baby. She looks good,right? I
am not answering that. But, this means yes.

在15年前之2002年的伦敦,一针对已婚的老同志为于上任平面公司之外赚点零花钱,用一个口袋数码摄像机为西装爱好者拍摄视频,这便是Men
At Play这个厂牌的前身。

Why is there a condom on it?

以她们开开是厂牌时,没有其余其他网站平台像他们那么狂热于通过西服的爱人,除了有些Yahoo群组。

I have to go to the Alibi Bar. Why? It’s a job requirement.

末段因为流量和会员的不断的全速增长,为了网站的通常运作,他们只能放弃平面公司之位置而事做影片。

Did I overstep? Did I freak you out?

一个会见执导、拍摄,制作有第一流的电影,另一个有精明的经贸头脑和机智的认,让这工作室以即时一个特的玩乐行业遭遇脱颖而出。

Look, I know that there’s a thing like you are not supposed to date
newcomers or whatever, but I’m not really a newcomer because I’m not
really a drug addict, so you won’t be damaging me by dating me. No. I
would be damaged me. See, you go to the these meetings because the judge
ordered you too. And it’s fun. You can learn a little thing. But for me,
these meetings saved my life. Literally, every day.

各路演员送上祝福,也包括目前正当红的Theo Ford

Realtors starters buying up property at better than market value, and
within a few months the whole neighborhood was over run with the gentry,
Bx as were forced out. Today, the urban gentry, is monied lesbians. They
knock on your door. They offer you twice what you home is worth, and
they do it because they know something you don’t.

他打了不久100部男人爱情电影,而且是受寻找最多的前30各成人录像演员之一

You can’t laugh in a year. When you won’t be able to afford to live
here. They moved in, they took over. They kicked the homeless out of the
park as if they don’t have a god given right to sleep there. We are
dinosaurs. And a big, fat comet is headed for our sweet slice of earth.
And the comet is a Starbucks.

时下当Men At Play也是不时并发的主角之一

Hey. 14 will give you 20.

下选用淡蓝网上有Pettie专访Theo
Ford的部分内容,以便大家领略,了解以及八卦男士爱情电影明星的工作和生活

So as a stepmother, I think I have the responsibility to tell that the
reason people don’t like you, and that your father don’t want to be
round you. Is because you are very very needy. I just think you should
know that. And then you can work out. You are needy and annoying. And
slutty bad mother.

(P=Pettie,T=Theo)

You want to dress like that. And hang in bars, you should learn to run
faster. That was insane. I can’t believe you just did that.

有关工作:演员……专业……敬业……安全……

S05E03

P: Do you feel a little self-conscious when you or you and your husband
walking on the street? Do you mind fans recognize you, take pictures,
and give them your autograph?

You see, this is what I’m saying, it’s the decline of civilization as we
know it.

平生当你或与先生并活动以街道上,会来点害羞吗?如果出粉丝看到,要合照要签名会介意吗?

You should get some for the bar. Hell no. I don’t need someone in a cons
after only buying one bear. I’ll get bankrupt.

T: It’s funny actually as people are too shy to come up to me on the
street. They would turn around and whisper “omg, that’s him”. My husband
notices it more than me. Most of the times, it happens in the gym or
hotel just when I least expect it. For example, when I go to shoot in
Madrid, one of the waiters there is a big fan, and the first time he saw
me he was “oh my god, are you Theo Ford”. It was eight in morning. I was
not showered, or picture-ready at all.

She is a girl here. She think she’s a piss of shit.

趣之是,大多数情况下,大家还太害羞,看到自己都非敢同本人搭话。他们见面变动了身说“天什么,是外”。我镇公会比自己更易注意到。惊讶之是,这样的从事,在酒店和健身房会比较常发出。有同等不好我错过马德里拍摄,酒店的等同各服务员第一肉眼就信服有我,但那时候是朝8点,我无洗澡也从不办,更是没有准备好照。

I died upstairs and then I came back to life. I was reborn in this
house.

Sometimes, I do have people telling me afterwards that they saw me on
the street, and ask if next time they can come up to me. I was at Heaven
last night, and in the queue to get in there was a boy from China, he
turned around, and looked at me, and asked if I was Theo Ford. I said
Yes, and he said he was a big fan. I was with my husband and he wanted
to take a picture, it was sweet. I just do porn. It’s not like I’m a
Hollywood actor. I do have fans, but I am not bothered by people on the
street recognizing me. It’s always pleasant.

S05E04

偶尔,大家照面于之后针对自己说,下次重相见可免得以拍照什么的。我昨晚在Heaven排队时,有个中国男孩认有我。当时本身同老公于一道。他惦记合影,我本乐意地答应了。我以为好只是拍摄成人影片,是出来粉丝,但为不曾到好莱坞明星那种程度。通常被认有,要合影等等,都是非常开心、很善意之,不会见介意。

We all have our own dreams. me too.

Usually, people are really shy, because when you do porn, you are being
perceived as this sexual beacon of empowerment, which might intimidate
some. So they will love you on Twitter, but when seeing you on street,
they will be like “omg omg omg”.

S05E05

实质上过多时刻大家蛮害羞的,特别是当你开成人录像之时段,你老容易被人口发生羞涩的感觉。所以大家会社交媒体上未害臊地粉你,但以大街上望您,就不见面这么,只会于中心嘀咕“
OMG OMG OMG”。

Shit stuff. You wanna go? Are you sick? Turning into a beautiful
mistake.

I think it’s great that the internet helps people to open themselves and
live the life they would like to. You have to be careful to get stuck
behind your computer or your phone. But this does help to build a
certain image and to market yourself, especially when your image is a
product to sell.

S05E06

周旋媒体确实可帮助大家在网上展示自己,过正友好精彩的生活。但您若专注,不可知为网上的生存,取代真正的存。

What did Ian do?

And my life on Twitter is pretty open. Most are personal things. I never
post sexually explicit content. It’s just me, my family will also find
it cute to look at it as I talk about my husband, my life, and what I
do.

You just can’t control yourself. Because the stuff always came back. You
named yourself shameless, but now all of you felt hated this and wanted
to threw that. You guys felt shamed at this now.

我以推特上之始末是杀明白的,大多是我之私人生活,不会见产生极多关于性爱等等的情。所以尽管本人之亲属,也得以拘留,也会见认为,这即是自身,和本人之活着。

S05E07

Of course, there are links to my movies to promote, that’s the sexual
part. But this is the only sexual part of my Twitter, it’s my work. My
sexual life, as a person, is private. That’s actually the only thing
that can still be private in my life. So I would like to keep it that
way. Also because I am married, I want to protect it. I also want people
do realize that my life as a married man, is totally different and
separate from my life as an actor.

How does he touch you? If he punches it, it means you guys are friends.
If he squeezes it, it means he likes you.

自,我产生时分会分享自己的影链接,那该是自己之推特上单有的与性相关的内容。我个人的性格在,完全是自身的心曲,这吗是本身生面临不过存的得是自我个人隐私的片,所以自己期待保护她。作为已婚的老公,我吧专程想大家知晓,我之活着以及自我的工作,是了分离的。

Frank’s shirt wrote “谢谢你”.

P: So yourself as an actor, and we have got a few other interesting
terms here, such as porn star and performer, what do you think of these
three, and which one of them do you identify more with?

We have to take responsibility to our own behavior. We can’t rely on
each other.

而唠到温馨是演员,那相对于GV男星、表演者,你看区别在哪里?

Ivan stolen a baby. Frank almost died. Fiona slept with jimmy again when
she was married other guy. Lip can’t go to school because no one sent
letter to him. It comes off as needy and desperate.

T: I don’t perform on stage or night clubs, so I am not a performer. In
the scenes, you know it is a movie, there are people filming, we are
acting. Some of the things I do are not me, even if we have a dialogue
or a plot. For example, for Men.com, I got to play quite a few different
characters in my scenes, which is actually exciting.

Sammi was gonna crazy. She shot her dad, Frank. Let he say he need her.

自我无在舞台、酒吧与夜店表演,所以我弗是艺人。在照的上,我懂会发摄影机,会时有发生对话,会时有发生剧情。我于影片里养的,不是实在的自身。帮Men.com拍摄之时节,我起机会演不同的角色,还是颇令人激动的。

I don’t think they control their relationship. I think they are just in
pain. It made me feel pain the same.

A lot of people say that I am not an actor, that I am just selling my
dick online. Yes of course, I am not quoting Shakespeare in my work, but
it is still acting, since I do not do things I would in my own life.

It’s easy to go back the life we used to be, but it’s not who we are
anymore! It’s not who I am anymore. I used to like the danger, the not
knowing who you were, the bad boy.

过剩人口说自己无是优,认为自己只是于卖肉。确实,我未需以温馨的劳作里演莎士比亚戏剧桥段,但自要以演艺,会举行有我好之存蒙无见面开的事体。

We are right together before. But I want something else right now. Time
changes people. It’s not you anymore. You should, you have to let me let
you go.

There are porn actors, and porn stars. Nowadays, you see some people who
have made one scene call themselves porn stars. I have made nearly 100
movies, and I am one of the top 30 (27th) most searched actors. Maybe at
one point, when you have enough experience, you can legitimately call
yourself a porn star. Porn star is still a little bit overrated term for
myself.

Whatever your real name is. Take care yourself, Fiona.

成长电影明星和演员还是生分之。现在众多人口只是打过相同总理,就自称明星了。我碰了快100统,而且是受搜最多之前30各成人录像演员有,但自己以为明星对自己吧是过誉的名目。也许等自身生了足的涉和著作,有同样上就是足以这么叫了咔嚓。

It’s the client cancelled the project. Jack is a good thief. Fiona. But
a shitty person. Jack…

P: So for people like Paddy Brian, do you think they can be called as
porn stars?

Sammi

这就是说像Paddy Brian等人口,你认为他们是男星吧?

S05E08

Paddy Brian

You have to make a decision.

T: Yes of course. You see the way they work is purely professional.
Paddy is one of these professionals, and he is a great guy. There are a
lot of them, and you can definitely tell the ones who are stars and
professionals, and the ones who do it because they just don’t know what
else to do. there’s a very big difference.

I feel guilty when I study here.

自是,而且更多的凡以他俩之敬业和业内。Paddy是挺过硬的汉子,在这同实践,有成千上万如他相同专业的,而且他们于那些因不亮堂自己力所能及做啊而打成人影片的理想得几近矣。

But if I came back to home, I really came back. And I came go out of
there anymore. I supposed to stay there even though i can’t help. But I
didn’t. The only reason. I stay here, in a long run, it’s they told me
is a good way to help family.

Paddy made a huge name for himself, and his name will appear in 90% of
the times when talking about porn, especially in the UK. And in the Top
30, I am ranked a little bit below him. I always feel so honored. It’s
nice and surprising to find out the way you see yourself is never as
good as the way others see you.

I’m gonna keep going here and I’m gonna keep making these payment. I’m
gonna show up, and I’m gonna count them out. This is what I need to do.
And your part, I hope, it’s patience.

Paddy非常出名,特别是在英国,只要开口到成人Gay片,90%都见面提到他。我当面前30总人口之排名里,仅落后他几乎叫做,对这我一直觉得分外荣耀。其实自己看自己,和他人看自己好无一致。别人看你,通常可以发现你自己看不到的闪光点和长处。

Please. You know. I just need some time.

When you are in porn, you are exposed both physically and emotionally.
Compared to 20 years ago, it’s much easier to talk to porn actors these
days by social media. Now the game has changed completely, there is a
lot more guys. Social media does allow to find more talent, and great
talents, but also allows people who are not or should not be in porn.

Because you Americans like everything to be right or wrong. If someone
is like you, it’s right. If someone isn’t like you, it is wrong. But
it’s not real. Life is not so this or that, black and write.

在自立行,我们都是身体以及情感暴露于外之。相对于20年前,现在可以由此社交媒体,非常容易地同成人录像演员沟通。社交媒体也为许多演员还便于吃察觉、被打,所以现在发出更多口于上演,但与此同时,也给那些未应有从成人影片之人出矣加入的会。

You should be happy Kevin makes these changes. Because if no one does,
this is how babies end up in dumpsters.

P: Have you ever come across a situation where you have to work with
someone who you are not attracted to? How do you still maintain the
chemistry on the camera?

I’m not Monica. I didn’t slash my wrist over Thanksgiving dinner. I went
for a drive. You took a baby. I didn’t plan first it doesn’t mean I hurt
the baby. I took care of the baby, I sang to the baby. I love that baby.

你产生没为工作及协调无爱的同行合作?当时哪些当画面面前保持热度和激情?

I get why everyone’s freaking out. But I mean you pulled some stupid
pretty serious shit, not too long ago and everyone didn’t try to turn on
you and permanently medicate you. I went to jail. So did I. And now I’m
out. But I’m not Monica any more than you are.

T: Well again, because it is acting. I make sure that I can see myself
doing that scene with the person. I have said No in the past. But once
you work with a big studio, they usually cast great guys, so it is
extremely rare to come across these kind of situations.

I told you not to fuck up your life. Don’t fucking do that. You guys are
happy. And you can be happy again, but not if you go fuck someone else.
And the two of you.i mean, I can’t handle it if you can’t figure this
shit out. I mean, this is not fucking fair. But you guys you’re Kevin
and V.so figure it out.

所以我一样开始便说,这是演出。而且只要您及于深之公司合作,他们平凡会挑选好好的男生与而共同打。你说的这种情况,是老大少的。

It’s not fair? You married too, Fiona. And you were happy too. And then
you fucked Jimmy . So figure out your own shit instead of putting it all
on me.

Maybe once in a while, they will let you to work with a guy that you
don’t really like, but usually they are pretty great. It happens more
with small studios. Once I was told one hour before filming, that the
guy I was supposed to shoot with could not make it and it would be with
another guy. I saw the picture, and I was not happy. I did not say
anything but to be honest, if they had showed me before, I would have
said No. Afterwards, I was angry at them because they had put me in a
situation where I had to do something that I was not OK with.

Frank used to drunk like that. Every moment he argued with Monica. He
drunk like a shit. But it didn’t work. He always came back to her. You
can’t drink him away, Mickey. It didn’t work.

这种场面或许会见于片略带店发生。比如有平等差,我以照相前同钟头被报告,本来要和我拍的人头来非了,要变人。他们让本人看了替换者的相片,我未曾说啊,但心是免愿意的。我莫当片场说啊,事后死光火,因为他俩给自身做了自身便不会见举行的事务。坦白说,如果一早就盼像,我是休见面承诺的。

So, you are a good guy. And I am a asshole. It’s absolutely. You know
I’m changing. You are a good man. And I won’t this is over. I hate what
I did. I hate that I hurt you. I want to take it back. And I want to
make it right. And I don’t even know if I really know what love is. You
know, except a thing that I fuck in all the time. I respect the shot out
of you, and I miss you. And all day today when everything in my family
is just falling apart, I just kept wishing you were with me. And that’s
what I knew.

P: Was that one of the comments you made online which was related to one
of the very unprofessional experiences?

Don’t shoot. I’m white ;

这就是你之前在网上提到的非喜欢、很无正规的拍经验?

Don’t say anything. Ask for a layer.

T: Yes. However, these days, when you work with big studios, such as
Men.com. It is just amazing and they will do everything for you. They
make sure you are fed, stay in a good hotel, and have your flights and
cab. Some other studios don’t even give you a drink on set.

S05E09

没错。但现跟充分店合作是老大开心的政工。他们会管您吃得好、住得好,帮您订好机票与车。有些商家竟当拍照之时段连喝的还未提供。

We can’t guarantee you will be safe in there.

P: Do you guys also need to be tested really often to keep working in
this industry, given the fact that you have to have sex with quite a few
guys?

Make friend in there. Do things for them. So they can protect you.

经常同见仁见智之人头拍摄,你们要经常开检测为?

Good work and no play.

T: I have shot some bareback scenes, but there are just a handful of
them. Even if you only shoot safe sex, there is always a risk. So to
make sure that I am not in a position where I can get something or
transmit anything, I get tested every month.

But asshole know how to made a deep impression on people.

自我过去碰撞了无套的,就几乎部。但尽管你下了保护措施,还是会出高风险。所以为了安全,我每个月份都见面检测一次等。

Why you take such an interest? Well, it’s my job to take an interest in
my students.

It’s for my own health, and peace of mind. It’s also important to
respect your co-workers, and my husband of course. If I catch something
on set, I can get treated, it’s fine. But it is more a matter of knowing
yourself and making sure that you are being safe. Also it is about
respect, for the person you are going to have close physical intimacy
with.

I’m not sure what you think you’ve doing. But there’s a policy against
fraternizing ditch your professor. I don’t want to fraternize. I want to
fuck you.

自我这么做,是指向团结,也是针对他人尊重,更毫不说你将跟别人来近的负距离接触。当然,也是为着自身的男人。如果我深受污染到什么,可以去治。

What did you came for? Me? Robotics. They got one of the best labs in
the Midwest here. Four years of free equipment. I’m happy to put up with
a little bit of bullshit.

P: So how long does it normally take for you to get ready for a scene. I
heard sometimes, a scene that lasts 20 minutes, needs to take hours to
film?

Algorithm. Writing code. What if one wanted to hack into financial aid?
You know.change an entry to “paid in full”. Ok. You just need a sequel
injection to get the hashed password. I can take a look for you.

这就是说普通拍摄一总理大约20分钟之影视,你如果准备多久,拍摄多久呢?

Not me. I’m going out with a bang, not a whimper.

T: Usually a scene would be around 20 to 30 minutes, and normally would
take between one hour to 15 hours to shoot. A couple of times, I have
scenes shoot for 11 or 12 hours in one day. It was horrible.

You believe in god, frank? I believe a force, that thinks it’s greater
then myself. Hey, I survived this.

常见来说,片长在20顶30分钟左右,会花费1时到15只钟头之摄影时。有几乎次于我同龙拍了十几个钟头,槽糕透了。

What’s peaceful about dying?

P: Wow, in one day, how to you keep that up all the time?

I don’t care how much they mediate. When the time comes, those Hindus
will be shitting their pants just like the rest of us. You know what
they’re be thinking? “Fuck. I wish I’d tried steak.”

圣什么?一天内,你是怎么样保持那种热度及硬度的?

Bianca .

T: It was very difficult. At the end, I was like I am done. I just
wanted to go back to my hotel. It wasn’t fun at all. Thankfully the
director got fired this year, so I am glad.

She knows what she want, Bd she doesn’t second-guess herself. It’s sexy.
There’s no substitute for experience.

良不方便,毫无乐趣,拍完了自家只是想转酒店。幸好那个导演今年让炒了,我挺开心。

I was just getting started.

P: Do you feel a little bit strange to have sex in front of cameras, as
you need to be aware of the angles and everything. Can you still enjoy
bits, or do you have to treat it just as work, and make sure all good
shots are captured?

Guy said”You got this”

以画面面前做善,会不见面当有点好奇。因为您而时时留意不同之角度等等,在漫天过程被,你还能够享用到片刻啊?

S05E10

T: It is a bit of both. You have to make sure you are or you show that
you are enjoying yourself. At the same time, you need to make sure you
open your body up to the camera. It’s practice. The more you shoot, the
more you know about the positioning and look natural as well. So it is
very important to know how to work with cameras.

Drug problem; break up with a guy means Fiona will meet someone.
Something surrounding was changing.

犹生接触吧。你肯定使保管好在镜头面前看起颇享受,同时假设确保伸展身体。拍得越来越多,自然更为熟练,对角度、姿势等情况的控制也会见重成功。

Iven hurt himself.

P: Do you have to stop in the middle sometimes, just for the
photographer to get a good picture?

A new dying girl

突发性你得中暂停,让摄影师拍有好照也?

It’s always the same. Sexy, lying. End and up.

T: Usually the pictures are done first. So you do all the positons with
the picture, and you know what positons you can do and you do them. It’s
actually good as you will know in the actual filming, what positons come
after so the transitions can be more natural. And it is actually quite
funny to see afterwards how you do different transitions from this to
that. Some studios do the pictures during the filming, but it is not the
best way.

S05E11

一般说来照片是先拍的。而且这么,你晤面知道要因此到如何姿势,不同姿势的转换会显得十分自然。拍完后羁押自己怎么变不同的体位,其实还蛮有意思的。有一些供销社见面在半路拍照片,我看这不是极其好之做法。

Nothing. I’m just passing.

P: And it is quite cool that you can practice all different positions
with your husband 😛

We talk to each other. And then solve the problem.

以,你还足以跟老公尝试这些不同的架势,哈哈!

S05E12

T: It’s funny because I never try these positions with my husband as it
is always very natural. That’s why I always say I don’t have sex with my
husband, I make love to him. It’s not the same dynamic. It’s the
emotions. Sometimes, it can last an hour, sometimes it lasts 10 minutes.
And that’s the great thing as it is the passion and the intimacy.

Dying girl killed herself

诙谐的凡,我没会跟女婿尝试这些姿势。我与他一直是颇自然的。我及夫的不是性爱,是举行容易,是完全不雷同的。有时候可能10分钟,有时候1时,这些还无重大。更多、更要之,是咱互相的情义、亲密和激情。

Sexy with any guy

P: Do you feel a little bit awkward or strange if your husband sees your
work?

Pregnant

倘你女婿看你打的影片,你晤面觉得意外或者尴尬也?

Keep going man. Let’s what was happening next time.

T: Well, obviously, he has seen me and I have nothing to be ashamed of.
I know that he has seen all the trailers for my movies. I wouldn’t watch
them with him. It is work, I always keep it that way as much as
possible. Sometimes, he is like, oh you look like you are really
enjoying yourself. I am like it is just work. Maybe it looks great and
we had fun and laughed a lot. But it is still just work, that’s it.

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从没呀好害羞或者尴尬的。我明白他看了自家有所电影的预告片。我本不会见以及外同看,因为就对准我的话只是是干活而已。有时他恐怕会见说,看起而在那边面真的万分享受。我会说,可能拘留起是如此,但不管怎样,只是工作而已。

And in the evening, I go home to my husband.

以晚上,我回到家,回到我爱人身边。

P: It is actually such an amazing thing that you have someone to go back
to every evening.

有个能够被您每天回家之口,也是生浪漫同福之业务。

T: It is and it does bring some balance. I guess I was missing that
before meeting him. I did not have any balance; it was all work.

对。而且这会受你的行事及生活带来平衡感。我觉着在遇到他前面,我就算是倒不翼而飞了这种平衡,那时候的本身不断地工作。

P: A lot of my friends are using all kinds of dating apps. They meet
people like having fast food, and they complain that it is so hard to
find a decent boyfriend. Do you think people should really get to know
each other before jumping into beds?

我之大队人马有情人都以就此不同的大概见面软件,他们像吃快餐那样呈现不同之人头,但为无歇地抱怨找一个好之男友为何那么难。你觉得滚床仅仅就件事情,真的是使三思而后行啊?

T: Dating apps is good and bad. It has helped a lot of people to come
out and meet other guys without actually having to go to a gay bar. It
is easier, a lot of people do use it as a tool to do what you have said.

粗粗见面软件当然是少对之。它们拉广大人口出柜,不欲去同志场所就是会认识新的情侣,让约炮约见面变得尤其爱。

It’s important to know what exactly you want. It’s very easy to
complain. If you just want to hook-ups, great. If you want to find a
boyfriend, maybe try to look deeper. Everyone, even if a person says he
only wants sex, still wants a boyfriend and be in love.

重点之是喻自己只要啊。如果你如果约炮,可以什么。如果您想要男朋友,那尔不怕得深入点。每个人,即使是那些声称只要性爱的口,都见面怀念如果男朋友,想要谈恋爱。

If you are open to meeting someone and actually open for relationships
to other people. You will always have the possibility of finding a
boyfriend. Sometimes it takes a bit more work, because you are shy or
socially awkward, or their appearances don’t fit into the stereotypes of
a perfect gay guy. But whatever you look like, there is always someone
who will find you attractive. And there is always people who will find
you ugly and unattractive, even with me.

如果你愿意认识不一之人头,并且想与旁人成为男朋友,肯定会生期待之。有时候可能会见于难,或者如举行比多的卖力。无论你表面如何,总会有人认为你吸引人口。就到底我,也会有人觉得自己不绝尴尬。

A lot of the guys don’t know what they want. They say they want
boyfriends, but at the same time, they want to have sex with lots of
other guys. So I think it is a matter of really looking inside you and
your own feelings, and then you can actually manage to do what you are
meant to do.

过剩男生其实都未理解好真要什么。嘴上说要是男朋友,心里也想念跟许多人数约炮。所以我道,你真的要扪心自问,了解自己想如果什么才得以。

You know there are also some guys, they look so cute, and you will be
like, omg, I wanna talk to him. And it’s funny as it was how I met my
first boyfriend.

偶然你会看一些男生,你见面当,天什么,怎么这么好看,我思念与外说。我不怕是如此遇到第一个男性朋友之,这样大风趣。

I just turned 18 in Dublin, and I was seeing a couple of friends. I
walked up to him and said hi, and that was it. I literally interrupted
him as he was with a friend. I was 18 and he was 34, so he was a not a
boy anymore.

那么时候我以都柏林,刚刚18东,和几单对象在大酒店。我顾他,走及前面问好,亲了他,然后所有就时有发生了,当时异还和几单对象于并。那是外34年度的下,所以现在外不再是男孩了。

P: Have you watched the TV series Queer as Folk? It was kind of like how
Justin and Bryan were first met.

君看罢美剧《同志也是人》吗?这与Justin、Bryan第一次于会见的观酷像。

《同志也凡人》剧照

T: Bryan was a jerk in the series, while the guy I met was the kindest
person I could ever meet and he is still a friend. It’s always the same
because you have to take a chance in life. Even for porn, it was a huge
chance and risk I decided to do it. And I feel like it is a good thing,
which I also ended up meeting my husband.

Bryan在电视剧里是单混蛋,但自身之率先只男朋友是自表现了太和气之总人口,现在己同外要吓对象。有时候你就是是要冒险,需要逼自己瞬间。即使从成人电影,对本身而言也是坏怪之支配,更是如出一辙场冒险。我当老好,我为以做事认识了今日之丈夫。

P: Wow, how come you meet your husband through porn?

咦,你是怎么通过工作认识老公的?

T: Because of porn, I was filming in Los Angeles. I met him as we have
friends in common. He is an underwear model as well as a celebrity
hairstylist. He doesn’t do porn though lots of studios have invited him
for that.

自身顿时当洛杉矶拍照,我们是透过合好友认识的。他是内衣模特和明星发型师,没有从业了成人录像,虽然发出很多号还邀请了他。

P: Ah, so you guys are in totally different industries.

就此若跟男人完全在点滴只不同之正业里。

T: I wanna make sure that he has his own life and career as well. I
don’t want to feel like we have to compare ourselves. I think we have to
compliment and add to each other, rather than share everything. We need
to bring different things into the relationship. Your work, and your
career is a big thing. I love the fact that he does things I cannot do.
It’s pretty amazing you can have that.

自我期待咱们出差之做事,他吧有温馨的生活。我未思闹那种必须互相比的痛感。我望咱们的涉嫌是填补而未是享受一切。我们还需要也咱的关联带来不同的东西,而工作是死主要之。我非常开心我的先生做在自我开不了底事情。

P: How long were you single before meeting your husband?

碰到你丈夫之前,你独自多久了?

T: I was never much single. I always go from one relationship to
another. I hate being single. Every time I break up with someone, I
always feel like I want to be single. And next week, I will find a guy
who I really really like and look great, and here we go again.

本身向没有怎么单身过。我多都是打平段关系就进下同样段落关系。我非爱好独立,每次分别我还觉得想如果独立,但过了一如既往完美就会见发现我欢喜的男生,然后还要开了。

When I met Shawn, I was not expecting to meet anyone. I was not looking
for boyfriend. But when I met him, I kept him.

本人遇见Shawn的上,其实并无在搜索男朋友。但当我被见他,我虽吸引他了。

P: Looks like you guys have the perfect gay couple life: attractive,
good career, and a cute dog. Maybe some day to have a baby as well. And
I would love to adopt a cute mixed baby, such as Asian and European.

在押起你们现在了在具体而微的老同志在:有好喜好的行事,还闹宜人之狗狗。也许有同龙你们会起温馨的男女。如果是自个儿,会怀念如果一个喜人的欧亚混血宝宝。

T: And I will have an Asian baby.

嘿嘿,那自己不怕设一个亚洲宝宝。

Theo Ford(右)和老公Shawn de Rodez

P: Do you feel like here in Europe, Asians are not as popular as they
are in some other places. The popular ones here, are either the super
girly ones, or the ones who are like very stocky and muscular. The ones
in between, sometimes, do not seem to be that popular.

君出没有出看,在欧洲,很多总人口好很相近女生的,或者异常健康的亚洲男生,处在中间的像不那么为欢迎。

T: In Europe in general, Asian guys are not that popular. But London is
different as it is a very international and diverse city. You have lots
of inter-racial couples. That’s what I like about it. My husband and I,
we are biracial as well. It’s amazing to share different cultures and I
would love to have babies with him. There is actually a technology now
that you can put three people’s DNAs.

完达成,亚洲男生在欧洲诚没有其它地方那么让欢迎。但是伦敦是好多元化的城,有诸多过种族的朋友。我女婿以及自己不怕不同种族的,能分享不同之知及背景是殊过硬的政工。我欲得以跟外有好的子女,其实现在一度发合成三只人DNA的技术了。

I would love to have Shawn get pregnant, lol. As a gay guy, you have to
work for it (having babies) and decide. It seems more like a mission
rather than something that just happens naturally. We will definitely
have kids, and hopefully in 3 or 4 years. Depending on where we live and
what we do, preferably before I am 35. I want to be a young dad.

自家超想Shawn怀孕,哈哈。作为同志,要孩子更多是一致种植目标和挑选,不是意料之中就足以有的。我们一定会使男女,希望当近年来三四年内。具体在我们以乌和当论及啊,但是自己希望35夏前可以生出。我盼望举行个青春的大人。

P: A lot of the Chinese guys have to live in the closet because of the
social culture and family pressure. It is hard to come out, and in order
to do that, I think we have to be financially well-off, and totally
being able to afford a stable life, and surrogate babies if we want to.

举凡什么,好多中国之老同志因社会和家园之下压力不可知开要好,出柜非常难。我当您得经济独立,有能力被投机过上舒心的活,然后才足以代孕。

T: I have lots of Chines friends who are more or less out. It’s a shame
because sexuality is something so natural, and there is nothing more to
change it. Homosexuality has been around for millenniums, as well as
with the Greeks, the Romans, and the Egyptians. So it is not something
happened with the internet or new technologies. It is something that
exists in the animal kingdom as well. We have thousands of different
species that have homosexual relationships. It is natural and in nature,
though it is obviously cultural and religious too.

本人来不少半出柜的神州情人,因为此要休克开自己真的挺遗憾。同性恋是千百年来就存在的,是当然的,没有啊得变更。动物之社会风气里吧发出,所以未是坐互联网或者新科技才有。当然,也和学识宗教有涉及。

When you do porn, and you are so out sexually. It is kind of amazing to
show that you can be empowered by your sexuality, regardless you are gay
or straight. But you can actually own your sexuality and be proud of it,
being able to decide what you want to do.

当您行成人影片,你就是因此好直接的方法公开性取向,还可以告知大家,无论是异性恋还是同性恋,都可吧祥和之性取向感到自豪,并且可以决定好想做啊。

It is amazing when some of my fans from China, even on Twitter. They
tweeted and telling me they are a big fan. And telling me they feel
happy to see that I can be happy and being gay; even being in porn and
happily married to another man.

自的片华粉丝在推特上对本人说,他们见到我作Gay可以这样开心,拍摄成人影片之同时还会同老公甜蜜结合,这为他们啊感到高兴,我认为就是殊有义的。

I am happy by myself. It kind of makes me happy that I can show others
that I can live a healthy life even I am gay. We have to educate people
to tell them that it is actually great to be gay. It is actually even
maybe more fun and exciting. Society cannot tell you that you have to be
married if you are 30.

自家好特别开心,让他人看到自身看成Gay如此健康快乐,我啊会快。我们得经过教育,让大家掌握同性恋也可死欢乐,甚至还好游戏。社会不能够告我们30春秋前要结婚。

When you are gay. You don’t have that. Imagine that you are a lesbian
woman. You don’t have a society that tells you that you have to have a
kid by 30. I love the fact that you are outside the society and the
rules. You can even create your own rules. I am the first generation of
homosexuals that can get married. And it is amazing to be a pioneer.

当你当Gay,你就算不要受这些约定俗成的事物束缚,甚至可以控制与创造好之平整。我是第一代可以结婚的同性恋,很开心能活动在前。

P: Did you guys get married here or in America?

你们是于美国完婚的吗?

T: We got married in Beverly Hills, LA, where my husband is from. I got
his name tattooed on my fingers two weeks ago for our 8-month wedding
anniversary. He got mine on his too.

我们在洛杉矶底贝弗利山成婚,我先生吧来自那里。为了庆祝我们安家8个月,两宏观前自己把他的名字纹在指上,他呢将自家的讳纹在他的指上。

When we got married and repeated the vows, it is pretty crazy. Sometimes
when I see movies or TV shows that have the same scene. I feel a bit
emotional.

当我们结合和游说发生誓言的时节,我感到有点癫狂。有时候在电影或电视里看看类似场景,我还见面吃感动。

Not every day is easy as we also have fights. We are different people.
Sometimes it is difficult to adapt and we got married only after 3 weeks
of knowing each other. We met on the 17th of March on St. Patrick’s day.
It is really cool because I am Irish and this is a national holiday. On
the 8th of April, we got married. That was pretty quick and a lot of
people thought it was a fake wedding. It’s funny because people still
talk like that. If you see us, all the time, we hold hands every where
we go.

当,不是每日还那么顺利的,我们为会产生争议。我们是例外的口,结婚前特相处了三只星期日。我们于3月17日相识,4月8声泪俱下结婚。真的快,以至于许多总人口顶现行且认为我们是借结婚。如果您看咱们,无论何时何地我们都见面牵着手。

P: That’s so sweet and romantic, even just to have someone to hold hands
together wherever you go.

具有一个别样时刻、任何场合都牵手的口,非常性感与福。

Sometimes, you were not expected to be romantic and it just happened.
And I think we all have that kind of romanticism in us. So you really
have to open and dig out.

偶尔,我们会无上心地性感起来。我道每个人还有骚细胞,你用不断打和发现好。

P: Indeed, and I have done some very romantic things for my exes in the
past. When you look back, you will actually be amazed at how and when
you come up with these kind of ideas.

凡是什么,我耶为前任们召开了无数肉麻之作业。现在回想起来,你会惊讶当初呀来那么基本上勇气与生机。

T: Sometimes it is like taking a risk to do something like that. When I
met my husband, it was my last night in LA. I needed to fly to New York
the next morning. And I asked him if he wanted to come with me. He was
like I don’t know and as it was literally the next day, the plan tickets
were so expensive. He couldn’t afford it. I told him not to worry, and
just take a day off to make sure he is free.

偶然我们尚需要点冒险精神。我遇上Shawn的下,是自于洛杉矶的最终一上,第二龙要飞纽约。我问问他若无使跟自同去,他说不亮堂,而且机票很高昂。我报告他转担心,请一天假,保证自己产生空就可以。

I got his tickets. The next day he came with me to New York for 3 days.
Later he had to go back to LA to work. So our first date started in LA,
and went on to New York, and lasted for 4 days in two different cities.
It is also the stories that make the relationship special. I like that
and you cannot make that up.

自也外购入了机票,第二天他就算和自己伙错过纽约,待了三上,之后他以工作只能回洛杉矶。所以我们的第一不行约会,跨越了少单城市,持续了季龙。正是这些故事,让咱们的关系转移得专程跟发意义,而这些是心有余而力不足杜撰的。

P: So who proposed? Is it yours or his idea?

这就是说是何许人也求婚的吧?

T: It was a sunny Easter Sunday, and we spent the day with friends. At
dinner, he was like I don’t want to live another day without you. I want
to get married. And I was like are you sure. It’s funny because I said
yes. But it was more like are you sure? And he was like yeah. OK let’s
do it. I was a bit crazy as well. It was also a way to make a point that
we want to prove to each other that we really want to be together.

那么是阳光灿烂的复活节礼拜,我们白天与朋友等以合。晚饭时,他说无法想像没有我的生活,想与本人结婚。我说Yes,但听上去还如“你确定为”。他即的,好,那我们即便结婚吧。这着实有些疯狂,但马上为是验证我们真想以及对方以一道的点子。

P: Dating these days seem so much more complicated as we need to
consider so many things; and always, there are so many choices, such as
omg, he is cute, but he doesn’t have a great career. We tend to lose the
guts of just doing it, simply being together.

立马年头约见面换得复杂许多,因为选择最好多,需要考虑的为充分多,比如对方大尴尬,但是工作一般。我们好像失去了明目张胆的勇气,以及简简单单在同步的初心。

P: Some people these days even use plastic surgeries to make themselves
fit into certain standards, such as high cheek bones, skinny faces. What
do you think about these?

现众多总人口会晤由此整容让投机适合某些特定的审美标准,比如高颧骨、瘦脸等等,你怎么看?

T: If it really helps you to make yourself feel better in your skin, do
it. If it is just a replacement for something you are not getting in
life, such as self-esteem and respect, that can be very dangerous.
That’s why there is actually higher percentage of suicides among people
who take plastic surgeries because they think going through certain body
changes will make them happier, but you have to be happy first.

要立刻诚然可以为您感觉还好重自信,那就夺做吧。但要将这个算某种无法获取的物的替代品,比如自信以及指向友好之看重,那就是特别危险了。整容人群的自杀率相对比较高,是盖不少人看整容可以于他们再也开心,但极致要的凡,你先使能被好开心起来。

P: And you need to feel so careful and delicate when having sex with
these people (Just kidding, oops, don’t break my nose or lip).

再者你和这些口滚床仅仅之时节要多小心,比如别来坏鼻子还是嘴唇(玩笑哈)。

T: Sometimes, you just have to make sure you are the best you can be. It
never a matter being perfect or being exactly what people want you to be
in this industry. And this actually apply for everything in life. That’s
actually why my name Theo come from for porn. It means the descendant of
a human being into a god-like state. The idea is, every day, you become
better.

偶,你独自待确保您成为最好的亲善,不需变成豪门想要而成为的那样。在工作达到,生活里,都应当这么。Theo这个名字的发源,就是神话里极其接近神的状态的人口。意思是,每天你都见面发展,能化更好的自己。

P: It’s the perfect relationship you can have. To help each other become
better versions. It kind of sucks that most of guys are seeking
temporary romances and chemistries.

就即是无比圆的涉,互助共进。可惜现在多数男生还是寻找短期的性感或者关联。

T: Getting married so quickly might seem crazy but it has actually made
us better and stronger. Because we are married, we have to stay together
and make an effort to really be together to make each other happy. So it
was actually really great to get married so quickly before we get tired
of each other. Even if at some point, it really turns out to be a huge
mistake, you can always get a divorce. In my head, if I don’t give this
the best chance possible, I never know what my life can be with him.

这般快结婚看上去确实非常疯狂,但就为受咱更是如鱼得水。因为咱们须花时了解对方,花精力为对方高兴,让咱确实当一齐。所以于我们无厌倦对方之前,这么快结婚是均等宗善事。即使有同一龙我们发现及时是只谬误,也可离婚。

We get engaged on Sunday and I told my mon. We picked the rings on
Monday. On the Wed we got married. So my Facebook status, changed from
being in a relationship, to engaged, and to married in like 4 days.
People were like what happened?

咱周日订婚并且告诉我妈妈,周一我们去请戒指,周三我们就是结婚了,所以我之Facebook状态在4上内从单独变成恋爱,变成订婚,变成已婚。很多人犹惊叹了,不知道发生了呀。

P: People might just think it is for post April Fool’s Day, lol

世家莫不当是愚人节的节后玩笑吧,哈哈。

T: It was actually just in April and just after that. I like the idea of
just making the biggest effort. If you don’t risk, you don’t get
anything.

委是以愚人节之后。我欣赏“尽最要命努力”这种意见。如果您切莫冒险,就什么还得不顶。

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